You're not alone here
This is a safe space where people going through divorce and separation support each other. You can read quietly, ask anything, or simply be here. There's no pressure to post, and you can always stay anonymous.
What would you like to do?
New here? Start here
Two minutes on how this place works: reading quietly, posting anonymously, and how we look after each other.
Browse by topic
Every topic is a room full of people who've been there.
Getting started
First steps, paperwork and knowing what happens next.
Finances & costs
Budgeting, disclosure, legal fees and keeping track of spend.
Children & co-parenting
Arrangements, handovers and keeping things calm for children.
Court & deadlines
Hearings, bundles, timelines and staying organised.
Working with professionals
Solicitors, mediators and barristers — questions and experiences.
Mediation
What sessions felt like, what helped and what to expect.
Housing & home
Staying, moving, renting and finding somewhere that feels yours.
Wellbeing & support
Sleep, stress, difficult days and looking after yourself.
Dating again
Feeling ready, first dates and telling the children.
Business assets
Shared businesses, self-employment and untangling the two.
Representing yourself
Going it alone — paperwork, preparation and staying calm.
Life after
Rebuilding, new routines and stories that give hope.
Something else
Anything that doesn't fit neatly anywhere else.
Recent conversations
See all discussionsSuccess stories
Good news from members who are further along. Proof that it does get lighter.
No stories shared yet — yours could be the first spark of hope here.
Community milestones
Every number here is a person who chose not to do this alone.
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How we treat each other here
- Kindness first. No judgement about anyone's choices or circumstances.
- Practical help and hope — share what worked, not what someone should do.
- Members share personal experiences, never professional legal advice. Check your own situation with a qualified professional.
- What's shared here stays here. No screenshots, no naming individuals.